Clueless in Durham

How do I tell a friend to stop bugging a girl who isn’t interested?  He thinks it’s romantic to “be patient” but she hates it.  It’s been over a year! [3563C]

Incredible that he could be that obtuse after an entire year.  Hearing it from a friend (you) might not be sufficient to crack this thick’s nut.  Perhaps the focus of his attention should find a nice but direct way to tell him “no thanks.”